Help I Just Came Down Too Hard On My Kids

Jul 25, 2022 | Clinical Psychotherpy

 

 

Help I Just Came Down Too Hard On My Kids

In this video counselors Dr Kevon Owen and Jack Smith are discussing “Help I Just Came Down Too Hard On My Kids”.

When you were growing up were you ever come down on or chastised in your opinion wrongly or just because your parents were the authority figures? There was no discussion just that’s the way things are when you know different?

Well you are not alone. Sometimes parents who were raised in the thought of parents are always right and kids are never right. And you should just deal with whatever they say. As an adult now you know in some instances they were very wrong in their decisions.

Not always but many times this sticks with a kid and they will resent you for it. Especially if they know better and you as parents were brought up to the thought of parents never being wrong and parents should never be questioned.

What if you did really come down too hard on your child and you were definitely wrong. Will you admit it or are you going to remain one of those parents who would never admit to being wrong. Your parents never admitted to being wrong so why should you?

You don’t have to repeat the actions of your parents. You don’t have to raise your children exactly like you were raised. Admitting you are wrong and being willing to be a human being about it will go along way with gaining your children’s respect and teaching them a valuable lesson about parenting. Doing the right thing isn’t a sign of weakness or letting your kids get something over on you. For some people this might be difficult. This is where a counselor can be of assistance.

If this is the case with you then contact Dr Kevon Owen for guidance. Your mental health is important.. Kevon can be reached by calling 405-740-1249 or 405-655-5180. More information is also available at https://www.kevonowen.com.

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