27 Genius Ways to Boost Your Self-Esteem Every Day

Oct 8, 2019 | Clinical Psychotherpy

self esteem therapy Edmond Oklahoma

Some days, you feel like you could totally take on the world. And others, well, not so much. It’s a fact of life that everyone has those moments when their self-esteem tank is a little depleted. But there are plenty of different ways you can bring your confidence back up again. And it won’t take weeks or months, either—you can do it today.
The next time you could use a confidence boost, try these 23 methods that’ll make you instantly feel great about yourself again. From how you move your body to what you’re wearing, we’ve rounded up the easiest ways to give yourself a major self-esteem boost in seconds!

Make a list of your goals and how you’re reaching them

Even if it feels like you’re a long way off from becoming the person you want to be, writing down the goals you hope to accomplish and how you’ve taken steps toward achieving them can give you a serious self-esteem boost in the short-term.
“Set a goal and see how you’re getting closer to meeting it,” suggests Oklahoma-based clinical psychotherapist Kevon Owen, LPC. If you’re hoping to go back to school to finish your degree, for example, make a note of how you called to attend an information session; if you want to lose weight, write down the date when you signed up for the gym. “Whatever it is, look at how well you’re doing or how you’re progressing and watch how it impacts that self-esteem,” he says.

Kevon Owen is a featured contributing author in this article. To view the entire article and slides please visit this link. To schedule an appointment or speak with Kevon please visit his website at this link. Https://198aa5acea.nxcli.net or call 405-740-1249.

Upcoming Books

Recent Post

Living with Bipolar Disorder: Building a Steady Routine

Living with bipolar disorder often means learning how to protect stability, lower stress, and notice early signs of change before life feels unsteady. A daily routine cannot erase every symptom, but it can support treatment, reduce chaos, and make each day feel more...

Affirmations That Feel Real: Reframing Negative Patterns

 Affirmations can be helpful, but only when they feel believable. A statement that feels forced is often rejected by the very inner voice it is meant to calm. When someone is stuck in a cycle of shame, fear, self-criticism, or hopeless thinking, repeating a phrase...

PTSD Symptoms People Often Miss

Post-traumatic stress disorder is often reduced to flashbacks and nightmares, but many overlooked symptoms show up in quieter ways. Trouble sleeping, irritability, emotional numbness, shame, avoidance, body tension, concentration problems, and a constant sense of...

A Simple Gratitude Practice That Actually Sticks

Gratitude is often framed as a quick fix, yet many people give up on the habit after a few days because it feels forced, repetitive, or disconnected from real life. A simple gratitude practice that lasts is usually small, flexible, and grounded in daily experience....

Depression Signs and When It’s Time to Get Help

    Depression is one of the most common mental health conditions in the United States, yet it remains one of the most misunderstood. Millions of people live with depression for months or even years before recognizing it for what it is — or before reaching...

Time Management That Protects Your Work-Life Balance

 Better time management is not about squeezing more work into the day. It is about protecting energy, relationships, sleep, and mental health while still meeting real responsibilities. This guide explains practical scheduling, boundary-setting, and stress-management...

Parenting Teens with Firm Limits and Real Empathy

 Parenting a teenager can feel like walking a tightrope. Too strict, and the relationship shuts down. Too loose, and safety, school, and mental health can slide fast. The goal is not “control.” The goal is steady leadership with real connection - firm limits paired...

Adult ADHD: What It Really Looks Like and How to Manage It

  Adult ADHD is often missed because it does not always look "like "hyperactivity." Many adults show it through time blindness, scattered focus, emotional reactivity, chronic overwhelm, and unfinished tasks that quietly stack up. This page explains what adult...

Quieting Your Inner Critic: Practical Self-Compassion

   An inner critic can sound like “helpful motivation,” but it often fuels stress, shame, and burnout. Self-compassion is not self-pity or letting things slide. It is a skill set that builds steadier self-talk, better coping, and healthier choices. This guide...